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got a date tonight and I'm getting nervous!

(364 Posts)
CrispyHedgehog Mon 24-Sep-12 16:50:04

help!!!!

lovemydogs Tue 25-Sep-12 08:34:51

me too me too lol!!! x

AnyFucker Tue 25-Sep-12 08:48:01

spill lady

kinkyfuckery Tue 25-Sep-12 10:13:10

Come on, I have to go out in an hour! taps foot impatiently

CrispyHedgehog Tue 25-Sep-12 11:37:24

It did not end well sad

CrispyHedgehog Tue 25-Sep-12 11:41:06

I'll post properly later. Have to go out now.

smoothieooo Tue 25-Sep-12 11:44:22

oh noooo! What happened???

DreamingofSummer Tue 25-Sep-12 11:48:40

I told you not to pick your nose

get back here hedgehog! tease

if i can't live an exciting life vicariously through mumsnet where can I?

Viking1 Tue 25-Sep-12 12:11:57

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NicholasTeakozy Tue 25-Sep-12 12:20:28

Hard lines Crispy. sad Onwards and upwards.

CrispyHedgehog Tue 25-Sep-12 12:20:45

very full on and intense.. too much so. Hugging and touching me like we'd been together for years.

He insisted on taking me home, asked to use the loo.. hwo the fuck am I so stupid

I had made it very clear from the outset that I wasn't up for sex this early in the relationship and he said I din't have to be old fashioned with him and did it anyway sad

ScrambledSmegs Tue 25-Sep-12 12:24:09

Just stumbled onto your thread - Crispy, are you saying what I think you're saying? And if so have you spoken to the police?

(((((hugs)))))

AnyFucker Tue 25-Sep-12 12:25:50

whaaat crispy, what are you saying ?

CrispyHedgehog Tue 25-Sep-12 12:27:14

havent spoken to anyoen
i can't say it

Viking1 Tue 25-Sep-12 12:28:47

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CajaDeLaMemoria Tue 25-Sep-12 12:29:58

Phone rape crisis. They'll understand, even if you can't say it. They really will make you feel so much better - if only because they know what you are feeling without you needing to express it.

You don't need to talk about it with them...you make mundane conversation, or they can talk to you about next steps, or you can talk about it if you want too. It's up to you entirely...

Please phone them, or if not, phone the police. They can help more than you imagine.

Rape crisis - 0808 802 9999

ScrambledSmegs Tue 25-Sep-12 12:30:58

Jesus, crispy that's awful sad

It's not your fault. You have done nothing to be ashamed of. He's the one that should be bloody ashamed.

You really need to speak to someone in rl. If you can, please call the police and report him. He's in a position of trust, as Viking says.

Lisatheonewhoeatsdrytoast Tue 25-Sep-12 12:31:53

oh no crispy, just read the thread. Are you ok? Can you speak to someone?

wednesdaygirl Tue 25-Sep-12 12:33:44

���� poor you xxx

CrispyHedgehog Tue 25-Sep-12 12:34:39

I dont hink he thinks he did wrong. i think he thinks i was doing the no no no.. but realy meaning yes thing sad He ws nice as pie afterwards

i cna'ttalk to anyone, no yet

Viking1 Tue 25-Sep-12 12:35:28

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BertramBertram Tue 25-Sep-12 12:37:13

Even if you were doing the 'no, no, no' thing - it is STILL a no.

Please report x

AnyFucker Tue 25-Sep-12 12:41:43

I have pm'ed you crispy x

ScrambledSmegs Tue 25-Sep-12 12:42:07

There is no way that he doesn't realise what he's done. He does know what he did, and how bad it was. He was just trying to minimise it, make you feel like you were in the wrong angry.

Please, call Rape Crisis. You don't have to talk about it, but they will be there for you and have advice. And they will listen.

gingerpig Tue 25-Sep-12 12:43:06

Jesus that's awful, you poor thing. sad

i know its hard, but try not to feel ashamed or guilty over something HE has done to you. please call rape crisis, dont let him get away with it. sad

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