TTC after miscarriage- March 2007

[duchesse]

Sorry, guys, can't leave a redirect at the old one- it's not accepting new messages. I hope nobody's already set a new one up...

[duchesse]

Kensgirl, hope you find this despite not knowing your way around mumsnet quite yet...

My history in a nutshell: 3.5 years of Mirena (coil); 3.2 years of ttc; 3 months of pregnancy; Miscarriage at 13 weeks, oct 2006; ttc for 5 months since then. Discovered to be mildly hypothryoid in January 2007.

[kensgirl]

yes, found you duchesse!
it sounds as though you have been through the mill , its never straightfrward is it? Hope you didnt mind me asking, but hoping good things are heading your way.!

[cazzybabs]

Hello girls...I am here. Glad we have a new thread. I got a bit lost on the old one...it was too long and too many people I didn't know and couldn't find out about them....

anwayway I am CBs. I have 2dds and since having them, whilst trying to ttc number 3, have had 2 mc - one about this time last year and one at Christmas.

[duchesse]

Just keeping this bumped so that people know about it- since there's no redirect from the old one...

[wheelybug]

Hello ! I've found the new thread - I'd only just joined in towards the end. Here's my details in brief:

1 dd (2.1), had a m/c in July - conceived both these pregnancies v. easily. Been trying since m/c to no avail. Not entirely sure my hormones are behaving.

[Catbabymummy]

Darn just made a new thread and spotted this one...

[Catbabymummy]

Me - Miscarried in January at 9 weeks, TTC ever since, today is CD25 and have been experiencing what I strongly suspect is morning sickness since Thursday, though no BFP as yet!

[hotchoc]

hi, can i join you all? i am waiting for my first af after a m/c that finished about Sunday, have 2 children and trying for a 3rd. let's hope we all move on soon. hotchocx

[hotchoc]

m/c at 9 weeks, development had stopped about 6 weeks when scan done. very sad. forgot to add that! hotchoc

[duchesse]

So sorry that you have to be here, hotchoc. May you leave again soon (in a good way)

[rahrah1]

Hi All... sorry to hear about your M/C hotchoc...

[MrsMcJnr]

Hello, I'm here with you too

In a nutshell, came off the pill 06/06, BFP 01/07, M/C began 01/03/07 - now trying again and hoping for the best. No DC.

[wheelybug]

Hi All

Sorry you had to join us Hotchoc.

Catbaby - all sounds hopeful still.

MrsMCJ - How are you feeling ? (silly question)

Not much to report here - a wobbly week here as 'due date' looming later in the week so have been a bit up and down. Will be pleased to get this week over.

[kensgirl]

hello again all!

Me in a nutshell - no dc, 1 mmc in december, turned out to be a suspected partial mole. Horrible. More details on previous thread (I was number 1000!!)

wheely bug - thinking of you this week keep smiling

Catbaby - good luck!!!

Hope everyone else had a happy monday

[MrsMcJnr]

Wheelybug, I'm ok thanks. Treading water a bit but I'm sure I'll be ok as time goes on. I hope you get through this week ok, it must be hard I'm sending hugs.

Kensgirl - poor you, that must have been awful for you

[gillian1973]

here you all are

me - m/c in late Oct at 9wks (baby stopped developing at 6wks). After a few months break we have been TTC again since Jan.

[Catbabymummy]

CD26 and another BNF. Starting to think that my body is playing tricks on me, or is it still too early? I will be tesing again on Friday...
Woke up at 3am this morning feeling very sick though...

[jess1996]

Hello ladies,

I am TTC again after a missed m/c 3 weeks ago (at 12 week scan I found twins had died at 7.5 weeks). Can I ask how long it was for everyone elses AF to return after m/c (I had medical management rather than D&C)? I am checking my temps again which I was confidant with before. But it looks like I still haven't ovulated yet.

[wheelybug]

Hi Jess - sorry to hear about your m/c. My AF returned about 6 weeks after m/c but I had a natural miscarriage. I think its all individual though. I guess if you're temping that should let you know. Good luck !

Catbaby - still no BFP ?! Could still be too early though... keep us posted.

Thanks for all your good wishes !

[cityangel]

MrsMC I am so sorry to hear your news.
and such a difficult experience must be tough for all of you. I can't offer any personal experience words of support but can send big hugs from East London.

[MrsMcJnr]

CatbabyMummy ? sorry about the BFN but CD26 may well be too early, how long is your cycle normally and do you know when you might have Ovd?

Jess ? sorry hon, no info on that as in similar position.

Wheelybug ? hello!

Today is my first day back at work and I?ve just had my first wobble as someone was mean to me at the printer for printing too much I hope I feel stronger soon, this is just exhausting. There were some lovely flowers on my desk from my team which was sweet Just can?t get my head round my work though know that I must.

[gillian1973]

First day back at work after a mc is horrible. I felt I was floating in a bubble all day. It is good that your team know why you have been off though; it really helped me that my boss had explained what had happended to them and that i didn't want too much of a fuss when i returned (I work in the arts so it is all very touchy feely).

Take it easy, take breaks and eat and drink, you will be exhausted tonight but it does get better-promise.

[wheelybug]

Hope your first day back is going ok MrsMcJ. Half way through now (at least it is if you do a 'normal' day)... I wasn't working when I m/c and it was hard enough getting back to our usual activities without having to actually do something useful at the same time. Am glad your team sound supportive.

[Jossiejump]

Can I join?
My history is-
DS 1 aged 6, DS2 aged 3, then m/c April 2006 at 6 weeks, m/c August 2006 at 10 weeks, missed m/c as baby died about a day after I had an early scan at 8 weeks, then v.early m.c / chemical pg in Feb 2007.
TTC again now, feel a desperate need for DC3, I know I should be grateful for what I've got, but still hurt about the ones I've lost

[gillian1973]

Josie, welcome to our thread {{{hugs}}}.