***Lets support eachother again- you know who you are ***
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charliesmum, nandos, beakas, sugr, cornflower, poppy, becky and everyone else who miscarried in may/june 2008....
We have all been very brave together and supported eachother. For those of us that are ready, it may be time to support eachother again as we return to TTC. Lets hold hands, remember our loss and give a nod to the future as we endeavour to procreate and............
SHAG!!

As promised, a thread to stay in touch. Will also see you on the MC avengers thread.
Hooray, I've done it! The new thread is
here Thought I'd get a bit poetic, hope you like it

See you there x
Hello!
How is everyone this morning? Was thinking in the middle of the night (as you do

) that we need to start a new thread, as we've only got a couple of posts left on this one and one needs to be for a link to the next one... If no-one's done it in the next couple of days then I shall wrack my brains to think of a nice way to start another one
Can't be long as mum and aunt still here and they're off to the airport this arvo. Things have been a bit crazy here so am looking forward to a break!
Becky Poor you re heartburn - have you tried the Gaviscon Double Action tablets? They were a lifesaver when I was expecting ds. Sounds like you had a lovely time in Brixham - where is that? You are brave going without the ds's, bet you couldn't stop thinking about them.
m2o Thanks re kitten

Not sure what she is

as got her from parents of kids in my class - there were four in her litter, and all different colours, so am thinking they're just a bit of a mixture. When you say cobby do you mean heavy? Cobby in horse terms would mean something that had a bit more bone to it, is that the same? She is a cutey though, and since we have changed her diet and got rid of her worms

she is doing brilliantly!
Have to dash, love to you two
Poppy and
Nandos too...
Have a think re the new thead please - I am so unimaginative when it comes to things like this

Hi all
mbm your symptoms are strange. I hope you are feeling better now your AF has been.
I can't wait to see a pic of your new kitty

I've just got back from 4 days in Brixham with my mum, sister, and brother to celebrate my mum's 70th birthday. We had a lovely time but I missed DS1 and DS2 so much. I hadn't been away from there for more than 1 night before and this was 3 nights. I want to move to Brixham now but DH isn't convinced!
I've got the most horrendous heartburn now. Yuck. Yuck. Yuck. I can't eat anything without getting it.
Hello- flying visit as usual!!!!
mbm Is she a british short hair?? She is gorgeous!!

Looks very cobby.
You need to put her in a cage/wire pen to introduce her to the dogs. That way they can sniff her and see her but she won't get hurt and reassure the dogs loads and give treats while they are being calm and not barking. Take it slow.

Have just put a little pic on my profile, yay!
Hello

Just another quick one from me! Just got in from the cinema - a rare treat as mum and dad offered to babysit
Becky Can't believe you can feel your bean kicking

That's amazing! It only seems like yesterday you said you were pg! Hope you feel a little less stiff in the morning - bet you were brill at the facepainting, was it difficult? I could never do anything like that... I have many talents

but artistic skill is not one of them

My AF started properly on Friday, which is fine as it would've been pretty awful timing what with getting the kitten, it being the start of the summer hols and my parents staying... It's been really odd with the sickness - it only lessened yesterday when AF became really heavy and I was in loads of pain. I have been truly feeling awful, just like having morning sickness, and even today, although it's better, it's defo still there. I think there's something not right, but dh thinks it's been another cp, although I don't agree with him. Normally I know when I've conceived, and I don't think I did. Is v odd though, and each cycle things are getting worse.
Nandos Lots of movement sounds like a good thing, and I don't think ds moved less towards the end. It all sounds pretty normal to me, and he must be getting cramped in there by now

Hope you managed to get an early night, and feel a bit less tired today!
m2o and
Poppy Hello! How are you both? Hope you're doing okay and have had nice weekends?
Our little kitty is settling in fine - will post a pic on my profile when I get a min. Have decided to call her Dusty as she is grey but looks like she is coated with white dust on her face and a patch of brown on her back. She's a plucky little thing, and has no fear of ds - they've been playing together loads, and ds is so cute with her! Off to vets tomorrow for check-up and first vacc's. Anybody got any tips on introducing cats and dogs?? One of our dogs has seen Dusty and went ballistic - a 25kg dog going crazy is difficult to control and I'm terrified that she's going to hurt her if we put them together... The other dog just sniffed at her a bit and was fine bless her, but Dusty was hissing and making very odd noises. She must've been terrified!
Off to bed now xxx
Poppy so sorry for you being mistreated by your friend. She seems to be approaching the problem in a very childish way. I don't really know what to suggest. I'd probably just ignore her or send her a email or something to try to explain things from your side (but that's just me - I'm rubbish at confrontations).
mbm have you not done a test yet? Your symptoms sounds a bit strange - you do tend to get sickness quite early on normally, don't you with pregnancy?
Nandos I know how you feel! The last weeks are quite hard when you just want to have your baby and get your body back to normal!
The little bean inside me is kicking me now - all the time it feels like. It particularly likes food!
I had to do facepainting for three hours yesterday at DS1's school summer fayre. It nearly did me in! I woke up really stiff today and my left arm was killing me from painting for three hours. But it was fun

Better go - making fish pie for the DSs.
mbm hope your kitty is lovely

and
m2o I hope you are ok

hi everyone..
Poppy hmm thats not very nice of your friend to say such things if it was untrue

i think even if u respond to her texts/msgs, it wouldnt be the same friendship as last time iykwim..
MBM if i were you now, i would have taken my leftover pee stick and test on it now since its CD35 already..
btw am jealous of u getting a kitten! i lurve kitties..why do u all have cats n kittens lol!! i want one..or two badly but family and hubby not so interested so cant keep them even though they love cats but to them, cats stink

maybe we dont put enough soap on them or something when bathing them lol

hope everyone else, becky and M2O are doing fine

as for me, i find it a bit weird as most of the women on MN says in late preg baby tends to move less often due to lack of space but mine seems to be hyper active nowadays and its hurting a lot

hes trying to push his legs up to my ribs and kidneys for more space..
is that normal??
anywayz i am off to zzzz land as have been out early n gone home late past two days and legs are aching so much..
goodnite everybodyy

Hi All!
Poppy Rant on here as much as you like, that's what we're here for

Things like that can be very upsetting, I hope you feel better about it soon. Do you think she realises she's upset you?

also re AF. Have you got over your colds?
m2o,
Becky and
Nandos How are you all?
Have to be quick as naked ds is waiting for me to take out a bucket of water into the garden - he's standing in the paddling pool looking hopeful

Its just filling now...
Having another confusing month here - am on CD35 and think AF's due Saturday/Sunday time. However, have been feeling sick for the last week, getting worse each day, but think AF might now have started. I don't feel pg, but this sickness is doing my head in. Am bloated too. Am wondering what's going on! Got my appt soon though, so will be able to bore new doctor silly with my list of questions

Better go as ds waiting... Sorry re not being on much - school finishes tomorrow and I've been out/away quite a bit. Busy busy busy!
Be back on soon!
ps Getting my kitten tomorrow, and my parents are arriving to stay too, hooray!
Oh
MBM Take That I am soooooo jealous

I like them even better now I am old!
nandos 35 wks omgoodness how time flies. You must be so excited. You will have so much fun when the little one arrives.
becky I can't believe you are half way there! It seems to have gone in very quickly - well at least to us virtual onlookers

I am quite pissed off just now. Am v premenstrual which is not helping and also making me feel a little disappointed "again" although to be honest with the state of dh and I with our vile colds last month there wasn't really much of a chance anyway!
Also one of my friends had a go at me in public last week saying I was talking about her behind her back. It is a long story and totally untrue but upsetting anyway. She sent me a vile text which I tried to respond to nicely but then 2 days later while we were taking our ds's to taekwondo she was coming in behind me, poked me in the back and started having a go. I explained that she was all wrong and eventually left but I was raging mad. In the past I have done so much to help her as she has lots of probs but obviously after all these years she cannot trust me and that I find very hard to take. She has since texted me and left messages on my phone but so far I haven't repsonded as I am at a loss as what to say. Anyway sorry for the huge ramble! I'm sure you all have better things to do than listen to this!!!!
lv poppy xxx