My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

AIBU?

to think having a photo of your child as your Facebook profile photo is sad?

154 replies

TateForViolet · 02/03/2013 19:57

I mean a photo of just your child/children without you in it too.

I absolutely love being a mum, and I love my children more than I could ever say but I still have an identity - I'm not just a mother.

OP posts:
Report
ginmakesitallok · 02/03/2013 19:58

But she's cuter than I am??

Report
SirBoobAlot · 02/03/2013 20:02

YABU.

This comes up a lot on here for some reason. People also have pictures of cats as their facebook picture - they're more than cat lovers too, they just want a picture of a cat there.

My picture is currently one with me and DS, but I'm sure once I take a cute picture of him without me in it, I'll use that. Or maybe a cat.

Report
LindyHemming · 02/03/2013 20:02

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

FactOfTheMatter · 02/03/2013 20:02

My identity does not begin and end with facebook! I'm not defined by a single image on an over-rated social networking site.

Report
Tee2072 · 02/03/2013 20:03

Sad? Really? Okay.

Report
NumericalMum · 02/03/2013 20:04

I think it is sadder to get so upset by it that you start an AIBU post about it.

Report
Sleepingbunnies · 02/03/2013 20:04

Do you have nothing else to think about? YABU

Report
crashdoll · 02/03/2013 20:04

Your profile pic does not define your identity.

Report
GregBishopsBottomBitch · 02/03/2013 20:04

YABU, My DD is alot better looking than me.

Report
Fairylea · 02/03/2013 20:06

My facebook. My profile picture. My choice :)

I don't know why people worry about what others have as their picture. It's all just random fun really isn't it. Facebook isn't for taking too seriously.

Report
BlackholesAndRevelations · 02/03/2013 20:06

YABU. Oh, and get over it Wink

Report
BrianCoxandTheTempleofDOOM · 02/03/2013 20:06

YABU.

I'm a right minger. DD is the most stunningly beautiful child ever born biased

Report
StellaNova · 02/03/2013 20:06

My Dads profile pic is a car....

Report
Rowlers · 02/03/2013 20:06

Teacher here too and don't want to be recognised by kids at school.

Report
PenelopePisstop · 02/03/2013 20:06

I'm not a fan of photos of children at work on desks, walls and stuck on PC. And drawings that their children of done. Sorry just don't get it. Why? Might you forget what your children look like, want to show everyone what a doting parent you are? Each to their own I suppose.

Report
Loshad · 02/03/2013 20:07

ditto euphemia, as a teacher i wouldn't dream of having a photo of me as my profile pic, but also you are taking this way too seriously.

Report
ScarletLady02 · 02/03/2013 20:07

YABU....people choose pics important to them and if they want to chose their children then great! I personally don't as it's a public picture (I'm not a "PEEDO EMRGUNCY" type person, I just choose not to have a pic of her on there publicly), and I'm a complete cam-whore who's always taking pics of my crazy hair....so I just have a pic of my current hair Grin

Report
CabbageLeaves · 02/03/2013 20:07

My profile pic is my dog. I love him. I want people to see him and admire his canine handsomeness and cute little face... and bask vicariously in that

It's probably more worrying that my pic is not of my DC Grin

Report
MajaBiene · 02/03/2013 20:08

Lots of mums and dads have pictures of their kids (or pets!) on their Facebook - have they all lost their identity?

Report
Caladria · 02/03/2013 20:09

It is very weird and a bit creepy. Cars, cats, dogs, trees etc ... are all fine because they aren't self-aware (and won't ever be).

Report
AcidWashSkinny · 02/03/2013 20:09

StellaNova

Is your dad a transformer? Grin

Report
GogoGobo · 02/03/2013 20:10

YABU and Penelope....Biscuit for you for that nobby post

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

freddiefrog · 02/03/2013 20:11

I don't use pics of any of us as my profile pic. It's currently a pic of row of local beach huts at sunset.

Profile and cover pics are public aren't they? I want to keep photos of me/my family more private

Report
gimmeanaxe · 02/03/2013 20:11

i went and put one there. Is it bugging you? Is it? Grin

Report
AcidWashSkinny · 02/03/2013 20:13

Profile and cover pics are public aren't they? I want to keep photos of me/my family more private

Not sure about cover photos but just profile photo has an individual setting so you can make them private.

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.