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I am a bit nervous about 'coffee' only having had coffee with the same person for 20 yrs...

Hello! I've reported my thread to beg them to stick bizzaroville in the title

don't worry Parsley they changed it in the last 20 years. It's much frothier and better now

Ooh, really? How so?

Not sure about anyone seeing me nekkid...

Parsley - candles. it's all about the soft lighting dude.

Parsley I know - that thought, "OMG, someone new is going to see me naked for the first time in 20 years and I'm not exactly 23 anymore, shit, bugger, OMG" Don't worry - I SWEAR, the anticipation is way worse. By the time it actually happens you will both hopefully be enjoying yourselves too much to notice - although a little candlelight's always helpful too.

lubey snap!

hang on a minute - are you having nekkid coffee?

Parsley I had only had sex with XH before. And then had almost forgotten how to be naked tbh.

And then discovered it's nice and easy and fun

Thanks all. Don't think the local Costa is ready for nekkid, but candlelight is a good idea!

Just place-marking before I well and truly lose track of what's going on !

I don't do harsh overhead blubs anywhere in my house - especially not the bedroom!

Oh actually I do in the kitchen, but worktop action is quite rare so ho hum.

Ah, im not bothered by nakedness. I probably should be ... but am not. Honestly, it matters way less than you think.

Hope sponge is ok

Sorry it was a dud snape.

Quite a few nice looking new male coleagues
In other news ive started dukan today... and have the mother of all headaches so am going to bed.

It's brilliant and easy and much, much nicer than it ever was with ex and I feel full of confidence even though I'm getting a bit saggy etc. I don't care, he doesn't care either. I did worry about this beforehand as no one new had seen me in the altogether for twenty years too - but like almost all the dating-related stuff I've been whittling about, it wasn't worth the effort. Go for it!

Well I still haven't managed to break things off with the safrican. I'll do it tomorrow. Yes. Tomorrow. There's always tomorrow.

Shit

Hmm, gingerbread man is proving interesting, although I've just noticed his profile says looking for dating but nothing serious so not going to make too much of it.

parsley there are so many different types coffee now to try.. have fun trying them

avoid the extra skinny non fat latte though. Yeuch.

logged on to POF and not a single message ! oops.. oh well.

Bantam - why the procrastination? Are you having second thoughts or is it just one of those unpleasant jobs we all put off?

bantam she is a manic, slightly racist who uses words like bizaroville! just do it.

This is the thread where everyone gets something positive before post 1000. That is my self generated woo

Right, the bloke I am in knots over will contact me and declare undying love <I will not contact him, he will contact me> woo, woo,woo!