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tbh i dont know what to say - i never expected to post a thread in this section of mn

I didnt expect to be a widow at 37

he was severely depressed, and although had some very good days, he also had very bad days and for whatever reason he felt he couldnt carry on and took his own life on Saturday 16th april

i know its early days, but i cry every day, silly things set me off, like yesterday changing the duvet cover - it was hubbys's job to do that and i had to do it for the first time

its got to get easier hasnt it?

Oh bless you Blondes, it's all so raw, it won't always be so raw. I am so sorry though, it will be crap for a while but have hope. Be with friends/family if you can x

I am so sorry for your loss

Blondes , I am so sorry , you are right it is early days and things will slowly get better but for now all you can do is be kind to yourself and do what you need to get through each hour /day .

There is nothing I can say to help but can always listen .

Do you have good rl support ?

Oh blondes, I'm so sorry for your loss. A suicide must be so hard to come to terms with. Be kind to yourself, grief is natural and necessary. Have you got good support in RL? Hugs. It will get better, but it will take time.

Poor you, I'm so sorry

Oh dear god, Blondes. So, so sorry.

oh I'm so sorry xxx

Im so sorry Blonde. Do you have much support?

I am so sorry for your loss. x

How horrible for you. I am so sorry that you are going through this.

Blondes I am so sorry you are going through this xx

So sorry you are going through this Blondes x

oh blondes, i didnt know, Im so, so sorry my lovely xxx

I'm so sorry to hear this. How awful. Is there anyone with you/looking after you at the moment?

so sad blondes really sorry to hear xx

Oh blondes I am so sorry for your loss {hugs} x

Oh I'm so sorry. I have no experience of this so can't begin to imagine how it feels.
I hope you have lots of family and friends to help you. You can always pour your heart out on here.

blondes I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Oh my, that's awful.
Don't shy in grabbing all the support you can.
Its absolutely the right thing to do to be sad and cry. Do you want to tell us some more of things he did? We are listening.
So sorry.
xxx

so sorry for you loss.

I am so so sorry. I don't want to bombard you with questions but if you want to tell us about him, about what happened, about how you feel, you know MN is here to support you. xx

oh no - I'm so very sorry

xx

That's so sad, you poor love.

Xx