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my beloved hubby died 2 weeks ago today - suicide :(

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Blondeshavemorefun · 30/04/2011 14:03

tbh i dont know what to say - i never expected to post a thread in this section of mn :(

I didnt expect to be a widow at 37 :(

he was severely depressed, and although had some very good days, he also had very bad days and for whatever reason he felt he couldnt carry on and took his own life on Saturday 16th april :(

i know its early days, but i cry every day, silly things set me off, like yesterday changing the duvet cover - it was hubbys's job to do that and i had to do it for the first time

its got to get easier hasnt it? :(

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msrisotto · 30/04/2011 14:05

Oh bless you Blondes, it's all so raw, it won't always be so raw. I am so sorry though, it will be crap for a while but have hope. Be with friends/family if you can x

compo · 30/04/2011 14:05
Sad I am so sorry for your loss
Prolesworth · 30/04/2011 14:06

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travellingwilbury · 30/04/2011 14:06

Blondes , I am so sorry , you are right it is early days and things will slowly get better but for now all you can do is be kind to yourself and do what you need to get through each hour /day .

There is nothing I can say to help but can always listen .

Do you have good rl support ?

AnnieLobeseder · 30/04/2011 14:06

Oh blondes, I'm so sorry for your loss. A suicide must be so hard to come to terms with. Be kind to yourself, grief is natural and necessary. Have you got good support in RL? Hugs. It will get better, but it will take time.

usualsuspect · 30/04/2011 14:06

Poor you, I'm so sorry Sad

ThisIsANiceCage · 30/04/2011 14:07

Oh dear god, Blondes. So, so sorry.

SybilBeddows · 30/04/2011 14:07

oh I'm so sorry xxx

orangehead · 30/04/2011 14:07

Im so sorry Blonde. Do you have much support?

TheCrackFox · 30/04/2011 14:07

I am so sorry for your loss. xSad

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fivegomadindorset · 30/04/2011 14:08

Blondes I am so sorry you are going through this xx

ednurse · 30/04/2011 14:08

So sorry you are going through this Blondes x

LadylissielouofShropshire · 30/04/2011 14:08

oh blondes, i didnt know, Im so, so sorry my lovely xxx

BecauseImWorthIt · 30/04/2011 14:08

I'm so sorry to hear this. How awful. Is there anyone with you/looking after you at the moment?

sharbie · 30/04/2011 14:08

so sad blondes really sorry to hear xx

elmofan · 30/04/2011 14:09

Oh blondes Sad I am so sorry for your loss {hugs} x

fruitshootsandheaves · 30/04/2011 14:09

Oh I'm so sorry. I have no experience of this so can't begin to imagine how it feels.
I hope you have lots of family and friends to help you. You can always pour your heart out on here.

heliumballoons · 30/04/2011 14:09

blondes I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sad

Adair · 30/04/2011 14:09

Oh my, that's awful.
Don't shy in grabbing all the support you can.
Its absolutely the right thing to do to be sad and cry. Do you want to tell us some more of things he did? We are listening.
So sorry.
xxx

Tortoise · 30/04/2011 14:09

Sad so sorry for you loss.

Suchffun · 30/04/2011 14:10

I am so so sorry. I don't want to bombard you with questions but if you want to tell us about him, about what happened, about how you feel, you know MN is here to support you. xx

Lilmeena · 30/04/2011 14:10

oh no - I'm so very sorry Sad

xx

Al0uiseG · 30/04/2011 14:13

That's so sad, you poor love.

Xx

IngridBergman · 30/04/2011 14:19

Oh God Blondes you poor thing. We are here for you pet. I'm really sorry xxx

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