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To wonder (thinking about this awful French rape case) if humans are just rotten

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OptimismvsRealism · 05/09/2024 15:04

It wasn't just the husband - at least 80 men went along with this. Guys with ordinary lives drawn out of nowhere.

I wonder if it would be better if we were to just wind things up as a species.

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Stath · 05/09/2024 15:05

Not humans
Men

PocketCup · 05/09/2024 15:09

It’s men.

ChickenandaCanofCoke · 05/09/2024 15:10

Didn't notice any women involved

Ramblingnamechanger · 05/09/2024 15:11

Yes agree with the others . Definitely men that are the problem.

AyeDeadOn · 05/09/2024 15:12

Yup. Men.

Pleasedontputthatthere · 05/09/2024 15:14

Not humans, men!

Pleasedontputthatthere · 05/09/2024 15:15

They only demographic the perpetrators shared (other than locality) was their sex. Men!

Lizzie67384 · 05/09/2024 15:15

Not all men but ALWAYS a man

OldMutantDecrepitTurtle · 05/09/2024 15:15

Yes, it was men who did this.
It was a man who set that Olympic runner on fire and killed her.
It was allegedly men who set that house on fire in Bradford causing a mother and her three children to die.
Our news cycle is largely a list of the horrible shit men have been up to.

mathanxiety · 05/09/2024 15:16

Humans?

MrsTerryPratchett · 05/09/2024 15:17

Stath · 05/09/2024 15:05

Not humans
Men

Nailed it. Men do this. Not our crimes.

Kitkat1523 · 05/09/2024 15:18

OptimismvsRealism · 05/09/2024 15:04

It wasn't just the husband - at least 80 men went along with this. Guys with ordinary lives drawn out of nowhere.

I wonder if it would be better if we were to just wind things up as a species.

Why you including all humans OP?
did you read the article? ….no women involved here 🤷‍♀️

YourHangryQuail · 05/09/2024 15:20

What would men do if they didn’t have punishment as a consequence?

I hate to think.

Look at what happens at war when men can get away with it.

This is why it is imperative that women have access to safe spaces.

RochelleGoyle · 05/09/2024 15:20

Ugh, this is unspeakable. That poor, poor woman.

Pyjamatimenow · 05/09/2024 15:20

My god. I’ve just read this story. Poor woman. Surely though she must have felt odd when she woke up on a regular basis after being drugged? He’d have had to give her some heavy duty stuff for her not to wake

ladygindiva · 05/09/2024 15:30

YourHangryQuail · 05/09/2024 15:20

What would men do if they didn’t have punishment as a consequence?

I hate to think.

Look at what happens at war when men can get away with it.

This is why it is imperative that women have access to safe spaces.

This , 100%

Smartiepants79 · 05/09/2024 15:30

SOME humans are awful.
Statistically men are more likely to be the problem but there are a few things pretty awful women around too.
They tend to be awful in different ways.

Tdcp · 05/09/2024 15:31

He filmed the daughter as well though I'm not sure how far the abuse went with her. What a tragic thing to go through. It really highlights that no matter how much you think you're safe in your own home, as a woman / girl, you are not.

ladygindiva · 05/09/2024 15:31

But I do need to add my voice to those pointing out it was men who did this, not all humans. I don't need to be wiped from the earth as I'm 100% confident I'm incapable of such evil.

Stath · 05/09/2024 15:32

When men are unchecked they destroy

I’m the mother of wonderful sons and, throughout their growing into men, I’ve always instilled in them the importance of challenging the behaviour of their sex

It’s not enough for them to just shrug their shoulders and think of themselves as ‘good guys’

They have to be proactive in fighting against the evils that the a vast swath of the male population inflicts on women and girls and children and that means challenging ‘blokey’ talk about hurting women etc

To wonder (thinking about this awful French rape case) if humans are just rotten
TomatoSandwiches · 05/09/2024 15:42

I think you need to change the title.

AliceMcK · 05/09/2024 15:43

Tdcp · 05/09/2024 15:31

He filmed the daughter as well though I'm not sure how far the abuse went with her. What a tragic thing to go through. It really highlights that no matter how much you think you're safe in your own home, as a woman / girl, you are not.

I’ve not seen anything in the articles I’ve read about the daughter.

Lizzie67384 · 05/09/2024 15:55

Smartiepants79 · 05/09/2024 15:30

SOME humans are awful.
Statistically men are more likely to be the problem but there are a few things pretty awful women around too.
They tend to be awful in different ways.

Do go on?

Doodleflips · 05/09/2024 15:57

AliceMcK · 05/09/2024 15:43

I’ve not seen anything in the articles I’ve read about the daughter.

I saw that. It’s horrendous

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 05/09/2024 15:58

Smartiepants79 · 05/09/2024 15:30

SOME humans are awful.
Statistically men are more likely to be the problem but there are a few things pretty awful women around too.
They tend to be awful in different ways.

Didn't take long 🙄

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