I have PCOS and been waiting ages to get an app, to finally get medication to assist my PCOS.
I've had the app booked for 2 weeks, it's in another 3 weeks.
Yesterday I found out the date of FIL's funeral. Same date. Within an hour of each other. The hosp app is in my home town, and the funeral is 2.5 hours drive away.
Called hosp to request to change date, they said next app I could have is middle of June. So nearly 6 weeks away.
I didn't change anything yet but honestly don't know what to do.
Funeral will last 20 mins (cremation) and there's no 'do' afterwards. Be driving 5 hours total (if no traffic) for a 20 min service. My daughter isn't going, so will have to organise and pay for childcare.
The hosp app will really make a difference to my health and wellbeing. Won't have to pay for childcare and I can take her with me, won't have 5hour drive.
I know I'm probably being selfish but I just can't justify spending £30 on fuel, £45 on childcare. For a 20 min service of someone who I wasn't keen on. And pushing back an app I've been waiting months to get.
OH will go either way, he has his own car so he's not relying on me.
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Hosp app vs Funeral
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SurroMummy13 · 30/04/2016 07:57
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