How often has your significant other shouted at you?

[GymKitJen]

Like raised their voice in an argument?

Once or twice in 15 years. Me a lot more. But I grew up in a shouty family.

Probably 5 times in the 20 years together, and three of those in the first year when we were young and stupid and drank too much.

He doesn't express himself in that way, I wouldn't stand for it and he just isn't that sort of person. We disagree a lot, but respectfully.

A lot, but that doesn't mean it ok. It's up to you if you think it's ok or not. Also maybe depends what they shout.

Never. He knows that he'd be told to leave if he shouted at me. I don't shout at him either.

Never. We’ve been together 9 years.

Never. We've had disagreements but neither of us are shouters.

(Forgot to say married 44 years)

We've been together for 8 years, can honestly say not once. He has too much respect to shout at me.
I was in a horrible abusive relationship for 15 years and he knows what that did to me....

Never. Been together 20 years.

Hardly ever in 20 odd years. We argue and bicker and piss each other off sometimes, but he is mild mannered and a much more tolerant person than I am, so it takes a lot for him to really raise his voice.

Never. He’ll raise his voice but not shout, and it’s rarely directed at me, more frustration about something else.

Never.. been together 4 years now. I wouldn't tolerate being shouted or sworn at personally

I’ve never once heard him shout in ten years.

We shouted at each other loads when we first got together in our teens, but after a year or so together it stopped. We have now been together for 10 years, married for one and I cant remember the last time we argued. It is years and years since dh has shouted at me. I possibly have shouted more recently when stressed and hormonal.

Never!

Don’t get me wrong we have little disagreements but dh has NEVER raised his voice at me, he can argue his point in a calm way but then he works in law so I guess his use to it

He’s got annoyed at me, but in the over 3 yes we’ve together he’s never shouted at me

We've been together 16 years and I don't think he's ever shouted at me. Don't get me wrong. We've had arguments where he's been pissed off and angry but I can't remember him ever shouting.

Never, it’s not acceptable to us.

Maybe 4 times in 20 years. I’m maybe 10 times (not a source of pride for me).

DP never. Ex DH every day.

Never , we would occasionally disagree but never even slightly raised voices.
We were together for 18 years

13yrs together, never that I can remember, but he knows Ide go off the deep end.
I rant and rave, he rolls his eyes at me, we very rarely argue if ever.

A few times. I’m not innocent though.

Never, not once in 7 years and I wouldn’t still be here if he did. A very occasional slightly raised frustrated voice moment from both of us over the years (always with apologies afterwards), but neither of us has ever shouted.

Two or three times in nearly 20 years? My temper is louder if that blows, but that's rare, not even annual, and my mood resumes back to normal pretty soon after it's vented.

We rarely have disagreements and normally discuss things very amicably.