thanks cindy - sorry I didn't get round to it. Will pop in there now.

Jools - so sorry. Maybe if your partner won't go for it you need to think about whether he is right one for you? Yes time is running out but it hasn't run out yet and if family is the single most important thing for you then you have to go for it, alone if necessary (sperm banks etc). Otherwise what if you two split up after your menopause - you'd have neither. Sorry, that sounds awful,but I too think kids and having a family (biological or otherwise) is the most important thing and don't think you should give up on it. Huge hugs.

xxxx

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/848280-The-last-of-the-GFJ-members-no-one-gets-left?rnd=125628996581 5

Link above

See you all there!

I am going to start a new thread, as I don't want to lose contact with the last of our GFJ bunch. I will post a link shortly... see you all there

Jools (big hugs to you) Listen sweeti I am going to be 41 in March next year, it was hard going but I never gave in. It will happen to you. I can understand about it being a chore the bding as it was getting too much. Just regroup and start trying again it will happen for you, I am sure of it. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cindy
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Hiya

Still around, but have kinda given up on TTC for now - not my decision but DP won't co-operate any more

Am hoping a break is all we need as the thought of the future without having a family is a very bleak and unhappy one. I'll be 40 in exactly three weeks - time is running out and how long do I keep trying ?

Yes, please start a new thread - May be GFJ - Last one's left to get a BFP... its up to you, but I can't see new members joining this thread. It would be nice to get us all through to the finishing line

me too re jools

Sorry - all sounds a bit horrid daisy - thinking of you.

My af came early this month! At day 27 (and not been before day 30 since coming off pill about 3 and half years ago). A bit grumpy about whole thing really.

Shall I start new thread so we don;t lose touch after the 999 messages? What shall I call it? I know we don't post much any more (and must admit I feel better for it) but am keen to follow all your progress.

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Daisy I am glad that at least they have found what has been creating your bfp's. I don't know much on this area but why not post a thread as I am sure there must be other ladies out there that can tell you more. Let me know how it all goes...

Pinkyblue Goush you are about 7 weeks ahead of me, I still have my 20 week scan to go... so am just relaxing and taking things easy. I am on this thread http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/824064-GFJ-DRINKERS-ANONYMOUS-mark-2?msgid=17090589

I f you want to join. Its the thread where we all graduate to... not many of us left now only the below:-

Updated list...
Due
Wanabemum - 28th Sept
Funtimewincies - 29th Nov
Wasabi - 2nd February
Cindy - 14th April

Graduated
Nelix - baby girl
Heeby - baby girl
Smileycat - baby girl 7lb 13.5
Pezzina - baby girl
Spats - baby boy 8lbs 15 oz

Not sure if you remember any of the girls but they pop in every now and again.

Have not heard from Jools in a while. Jools if you are reading this, I am thinking of you!

Laters everyone
Cindy
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Congratulations C!NDY - it sounds as though everything is going really well. Keep on taking care of yourself though.

I've had a bit of an up and down time since I last posted. I had 2 very definite BFPs at the end of my last cycle - the second one was on the day that AF started, on day 28 as normal. Not a sign of another odd long cycle, thank goodness.

But, luckily, because of the odd cycle, my GP had referred me for both an ultrasound and to a gynae.

At the ultrasound scan 2 days before AF started, the sonographer discovered a really big mass in my uterus. She said it was so big she couldn't see past it. She tried both internal and external ultrasound with no luck. She said she though it was a big fibroid.

A few days after that, I went the the gynae who confirmed I have a very large mass which is the reason for the chemical pgs I've had this year - it's preventing anything implanting successfully and that according to my bloods, I have PCO too. She said I have a carbohydrate problem which creates excess insulin and that I need to have a 21 day blood test to check for ovulation.

She's also booked me in for a hysteroscopy on Tuesday evening so she can check out the mass and try and see past it to check out my ovaries. She's insisted on doing it under general because she said 'it'll be very painful, as the mass is so big'.

Does anyone have any advice?! I have a bit of the nerves.

Fab news Cindy, you are over the worst of it now!

I too had scan yesterday 20 weeks and am pleased to say everything was fine and that I am having a little girl!!

Fingers crossed for all of you that you will get your BFP soon, as Cindy and I are proof