PURPLE.FLIPPING.KOALA! I am over the moon for you! What a thrill! I'm so excited by the fact that a) you are old, like me (yes, yes, I know you're not that old) and b) you used AI! Frankly I am astonished that self-insemination works this well - that's you, Ninjabeer and Sparkly who have succeeded with this method - it gives me so much hope. Please will you come back and tell us what your DH's SA results are? Thank you Oh, and p.s...I got pregnant naturally the first time aged 40 using your 'intercourse' pattern
Wotsits, whatever you do, don't apologise to your friend for being pregnant. You have nothing to apologise for, least of all her infertility.Tell her before anyone else gets chance to and put it in a letter; I promise she will find that easier to deal with than face-to-face. Please don't text or email - it's lazy and craven. You mustn't feel bad because of her circumstances; it's the nature of fertility that some take forever and face horrid obstacles and others are instadiffers. Just tell her you wanted to be as tactful as you could because you are sensitive to their situation and that you care so much about her.
I've been baby-bombed by a 44 year old She was my very best friend growing up but we became estranged when I fell in love at 18. She went on to have a baby at 23 and here she is now, on facebook, parading her premature baby daughter (Nell, beautiful name). How the hell did she do it? How? She smokes cannabis all evening every evening and has done since her early twenties. She never exercises. She eats erratically and badly. But guess what...? Her lover is 21