i think my baby is dead

[Titania]

i started bleeding with lots of clots and had pain this morning. Am just waiting for doctor to ring me back. I have just passed something that looks like it could have been 'it' (sorry if TMI) Have had 3 miscarriages before and it feels like deja vu again. DH is miles away and can't get home.

Am totally gutted.

[Toothache]

Titania -

[TrophyWife]

am so sorry for you,

[noddyholder]

so sorry

[Gobbledigook]

[RTKangaMummy]

[cadbury]

Oh T!
Thinking of you

[LGJ]

Titania


I don't know what to say.

[beansmum]

oh no

[Windermere]

Take care

[Titania]

doc says that it sounds like baby has died........that theres nothing they can do anyway.......and because ive had 3 miscarriages before i am probably the best judge....but it sounds like i have passed 'it'.........to take paracetamol and rest..............sigh....

[sweetmonkey]

how far along were you ?i didnt realise you were pg. so sorry for yr loss. have you told yr partner

[Thomcat]

Oh God, babes, I don't know what to say to you. i'm so, so, sorry.
How far along were you, is there no chance of a scan or some real medical support of some kind other than some decrepid old GP?

[huggybear]

//[[[[[[hugs]]]]]]

[Nemo1977]

Titania i can completely empathise having had 3mcs myself...take care of yourself and take it easy

[Titania]

i dont know how far i was.........

i know a lot of you probably think it was for the best, but i wanted this baby.....i wanted to be able to hold it in my arms, not sitting on the toilet crying for it as it disappears from me...

it had really given me something so focus on. I was feeling so positive about it....

[lunavix]

So sorry hun xx

[LGJ]

T

Focus on yourself, and grieve for your baby, do not worry what other people think.


LGJ

[MarsLady]

I'm sorry

[sweetmonkey]

Have you told yr dp? can't he get bac kto be with you? no one thinks bad things towards you!!!

[jessicasmummy]

T

Thinking of you hun. Really sorry.

[alison222]

So sorry for you.

[Titania]

have told DH....he is an hour and a half away. his boss wont bring him home and we have no money for him to get home on his own.....

[Lonelymum]

Oh goodness Titania, I had no idea you were pregnant even! I am so sorry. I guess you know the symptoms better than anyone if you have been through this before, but can you get it checked out first? I thought I lost No 4 but it turned out I was losing an undeveloped twin I never knew I was carrying instead. Don't want to raise your hopes, but I hope you get it checked out.

[LGJ]

Do you mean he has asked his boss and his boss has refused that is monsterous [sp]