Completely prepared to be told iabu. I really don't know...
We have 3 dc and are struggling a bit financially. Nothing dreadful but we've got into about £3k debt paying nursery fees etc.
My pil have set up trust funds for our dc which they (and only they) can access at 18. The money can't be touched by anyone till then.
Aibu to feel a bit weird that my pil have effectively entrusted my dc with large chunks of cash that my dh and I have no say over? I'm hoping they'll be mature, responsible 18 year olds who'll use the money for university. But... I just feel a bit uneasy.
I would rather the money was put into an account that we can use for their education now or save for when we feel they'll be responsible enough to use wisely.
Hit me with it. Aibu?!
AIBU?
Trust fund for children set up by pil
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