Dp and I have bought a house that we have been doing up. My two young boys share a room upstairs - with me and dp in an en suite.
Dp is moving in next month. His dd (my dsd) is in her mid-late teens. We have made her a large room of her own in a large 'study' on the ground floor.
However, she is refusing to move with Dp and says she will move back to her mum's unless we give up our bedroom (next to my boys) or convert the attic (we cannot afford this). She says it is not fair that she can't sleep in the 'bedrooms' like my boys.
We have basically told her that she needs to decide where she wants to live, but she will always be welcome here.
Have we done enough? Are we being fair?
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Onthedoorstep · 06/04/2014 21:26
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