I won't bore you too much, but I will off-load a little with a bit of background.
Me and dp have been together for 4 years. We have 2 children.
I feel that he doesn't do enough to help and support me.
he works full time and I am a SAHM but will soon be starting a part-time job and will be looking for a childminder for the ds's.
Dp has never been very hands on with the boys, he never takes them out just on his own or does anything with them. n the rare ocassion that I manage to get a lay in, he just ignores them and leaves them watching the telly.
Once, I stayed in bed until 11 am and the children weren't even dressed!
I don't get any emotional support from him, he never just gives me a hug, all physical contact has to lead to sex, but as I don't want to have sex, we don't have any physical contact.
I just got offered a job after not working for 3 years and he didn't even congratulate me, or when I started studying for a diploma he has not offered any ebcouragement or support.
I have tried and tried to have that conversation with him about how I need some help, but nothing ever changes, and part of me thinks he'd be more use to me if we split because at least then he would have to see the children on his own and I'd get a break.
I've just had enough.
But I can't leave. I don't have anywhere to go. He owns the flat we live in and I don't have any money.
What can I do?
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I'm thinking of leaving :-( (boring, skip to last paragraph)
SilveryMoon · 08/07/2010 07:34
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