Hi, I recently had a thread about my Mother who uses emotional blackmail / is controlling:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2328777-Mother-who-uses-emotional-blackmail
Since this event, I have noticed a few times, that things have been different when I've come home (TV on / toilet seat left up etc).
Anyway, this week, we've all been off work/school, and we went out for the whole day to London on Thurs.
Before we left, I fully locked the front door, and went around checking the lights were all switched off.
When we returned, there were lights left on all over the house, and the front door had clearly been used, as the door was only semi locked!
I was a bit freaked out by it, and we have now changed the locks, but I feel really concerned, that (if it is her) she thinks it's ok to do this without asking first if we'll be home. (And the fact that the intruder had left loads of lights on too!)
Only one other person has a key (my neighbour), and I have asked her, and she knows nothing about it.
Seems a coincidence that I stand up to her, for the first time, and then this starts happening!
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Think my mum has been letting herself into our house when we're not even in
lovedoughnuts · 04/04/2015 16:49
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