Last night my husband sat me down as he had something to tell me.
On Friday he went to his friends evening wedding reception. I was working at his mum's shop.
As he was leaving at 11:45pm a young girl that was attending someone else's wedding reception walked across the carpark explaining that she had no money and could he please take her into town to meet her friends. She was also on the phone to her friends explaining that she had no money.
Despite town being out of his way he took her as he didn't want to leave her stranded.
As he was driving she declared that he was gorgeous and placed her feet up on his dashboard. She then started using her fingers to pleasure herself and asked my dh to take her somewhere dark and private. Which he didn't, he explained he had to get back to the reception as he had left his friends there.
Upon arriving at town she asked him repeatedly to have sex with her, and was getting quite angry that he was refusing to. When she finally got out she punched my dh on the cheek and slammed the door.
My dh then went back to the wedding reception and didn't get home until 3am. He explained he was so late because his friends wanted taking home.
I was very calm while he was telling me as something similar happened to me twice before - not as disgusting but a 'friend' tried kissing me whilst I was dropping him off at home, he then sent me disgusting texts despite me telling him to take a run and jump! Another 'friend' tried to kiss me after a group night out.
I'm absolutely sickened by the whole thing and have been physically sick this morning because I had to drive his car on Saturday, completely oblivious that this woman had been sat in it pleasuring herself. I never ever want to set foot in that car again! She was sat where I normally would if dh was driving.
Now I'm thinking about it I have so many questions that don't make sense.
- Why would she ask a stranger for help when she must have friends/family at the reception that could have helped her out?
- Why did my husband go out of his way to help a stranger, knowing there must be other people she knows that would help her.
- Why did he return to his friends afterwards instead of coming straight home.
- Why didn't he explain he had a wife and 3 kids waiting for him at home instead of having to go back to his friends.
- Why did he leave it until last night to tell me?
I am so confused and hurt and upset and angry and devastated.... I love my husband so much and I don't think he would ever, ever cheat on me but those questions are getting to me. I wish I could switch my brain off.
I'm very insecure at the best of times without this. I am a very wobbly size 24 lady and he says this girl was a slim girl with short blonde hair.
We have just recently celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary, he is 25, I am 27. Our children are 7, 6, 2yrs.
What should I be thinking? I'm sorry it's long.