Hello, I have been on Mumsnet for some years but have not posted for a while. Have had some fantastic advice before. I have spent years trying to leave my P and have, the past few months, left him and got myself and DCs a house. He is still very much in our lives and I have probably allowed him in a bit too much in that he did some jobs around the house and stayed over a few nights as he wanted to tuck kids in bed etc.
This was working OK and I genuinely thought he'd had a wake-up call and was changing.
However, the last few weeks I saw him reverting back. We had some huge rows and I snapped and said enough was enough, I wanted him out and he could see the DCs as much as he wanted but not me.
He talks and talks and talks to me and calls all the time and turns up trying to talk me around. One day he sat in his car outside the house just not moving for about 2 hours.
I know he loves me and wants us to work out and part of me still loves him but I'm fed up with the rows and the nastiness and name calling. I just really want to me on my own.
I'm not out to hurt him or anything or meet someone else or fleece him for everything he's got or make his life hell. I just want to be on my own!
Anyway, I could go on and on but what I'm leading to is..........he left us with the main computer and bought himself a laptop. He has managed to sync the computers so he can control the computer in my house from his laptop and mobile phone. I have realised that he has been switching on the built-in webcam and watching us and possibly listening too and is able to see everything I am doing on the computer and can control it.
I am not really sure how to deal with this as I'm not always sure when he's switched it on.
WWYD???
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CuppaT · 29/09/2010 10:52
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