I found out I was pregnant 2 days ago and my boyfriend was with me as I did the test. I am about 5wks I have worked out. I had barely managed to determine the result when he told me to get an abortion.
Last year I was 15 weeks pregnant when my mum & he pressured me into an abortion and I've regretted it every minute of every day since. I always swore if it happened again I'd keep the baby. My boyfriend and I just had a long chat and he tells me he's just not ready and if we had a baby he would not be able to love it as it would ruin his life (he's a professional sports man and travels a lot) we are both financially stable and do not live together officially yet (he stays at my house every night)
He is so passionate and set in his ways that this is not the right time for him and he does not want this. But it's all I've longed for every day :-(
I know his wants are as important as mine but my heart is breaking.
Can anyone give me some advice?
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My boyfriend doesn't want our baby :(
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FionaMxx · 27/07/2016 23:12
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