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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 10)
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youremindmeofthebaubles · 01/01/2011 18:50
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Mamapower ·
01/01/2011 19:05
Boo!!! I'm here! You popped in just in the nick of time! 
Thanks for the shiney new thread to kick off the new year 
HidingInTheUndergrowth ·
01/01/2011 19:25
Wooo! What a lovely new thread you have here. I just adore what you've done with the place! 
just found some cocktail mixers and a bottle of vodka in the fridge that somehow got overlooked in the port drinking frenzy so cocktails all round. [passes round glasses of pretty coloured joy]
try not to worry too much wombat though of course I know that is far easier typed then done. Especially when you are stuck somewhere with a sickeningly happy pregnant person. Big (((hugs))) and fx for you.
Is it officially obsessive when you are seriously trying to think of excuses not to drink for the sole purpose of getting an acurate temp reading tomorrow morning?! I have a friend staying for the weekend and I am desperately trying to hide my madness from her but I am thinking she might be starting to notice that I keep disapearing to hide in the bedroom and take my temperature for the fourth time today! 
youremindmeofthebabe ·
01/01/2011 19:36
Ah, we all do that ochaye although as time passes it doesn't seem as all consuming as it did in the first couple of cycles, IYSWIM.
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy ·
01/01/2011 19:39
Hello all, lovely new thread here YRMOTB >
I have a bottle of fizzy that we were going to use for bucks fizz at breakfast today but neither of us could face after polishing off a bottle of champagne and two bottles of wine between us last night 
] so will add that to the mix.
Thank you to those who've been asking after me - I'm doing pretty ok at the minute. I have my moments of course like everyone and I did feel a bit sad last night - even though I was glad to see the back of 2010 it felt like I was leaving my baby even further behind iykwim. But I think I've got my head around ttc as a long term thing not a quick fix, and I do feel really positive about this year. I honestly believe it's going to happen for us, it's just going to take time.
wombat hope you're ok, keeping my fx for you that that bfp gets ever darker.
YRMOTB yes I'm definitely up for the detox...have got almost a stone to lose I reckon so am going to join weight watchers or similar next week with a friend, and even thinking of joining the gym 
. Will have to keep each other on the straight and narrow!! Anyone else fancy joining us?
Might go and fetch the stats now while I've still got the old thread open...
Mamapower ·
01/01/2011 20:04
Ah there it is... < hee hee! Thought I better get it just in case...
Thanks for doing list izzy that rightly points out i'm on Day 14 and expect to ov some time in next 2/3 days and DH is back tomorrow, ahhhh perfect timing...see you in 3/4 then 
Ladybee ·
01/01/2011 20:28
Fudge! I love you Mousebacon, my absolute favouritist thing ever.
Mamapower how nice to be heading in to conceive-land at the beginning of the year. Good luck!
So to all the new joiners. How are you? I can imagine how raw the last few days must have been - compulsory fun-nights, celebrations, bitter-sweet 'at least I can drink' thoughts, when actually you just want to be secretly holding a non-alcoholic fizzy something.
Sooo, I'm feeling a bit blue because right now my mood is directly linked to my waking temperature and it took another dip this morning.
Next month, I am NOT going to temp after ovulation is confirmed. I swear. It just does my head in and I'm pretty regular I know my period will either come 10-12 days after ov is confirmed, or it won't and if it doesn't I'll test.
Will that be my New Year's resolution? part of trying to relax a bit more about the whole thing. And direct attention where it's needed by the people and things that I have, rather than what I've lost.
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Mamapower ·
01/01/2011 22:00
Good work Velvet, let's hope it's the first of many good things to happen! ooh and just noticed that we are on the same CD this month... fingers crossed we get lucky
nickstermum ·
01/01/2011 22:21
Am here!
Was just thinking of tidying up the list a touch... to add a BFP list to make the top of the list a bit more neater and readable...? Dont know if fiddling will upset anyone? Im not quite ready to grad, but am getting in the way at the top.
Would anyone mind?!
pink dont worry, chill. Im really sorry you havent felt good today, and i know Jan is going to be tough for you, we are all here to help, y'know :) Wheres that ZEN gone?!
< < < < < May the fish be wielded for anyone thinking thoughts of never getting a bfp again...
Izzy well done on getting through chrimbo, i know it was tough for you and your family...very proud of you lovely xx
wombat still thinking of you..glad those temps are still high, i was told to stop temping when i got the bfp cos it can help send you doo-lally with every little dip! Hope they are helping and not hindering!! Have everything crossed and hope you are guzzling PJ and munching those nuts!!
Sorry for the temp dip bee maybe its just a blip!
Hadrian glad you are feeling ok, still must be raw but it will get easier x
ochaye WTTC waiting to try to conceive, UCL is usual cycle length, CD is cycle day. hope that helps!! WTF is the limbo cycle between MC bleed/op and first proper period!
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