Ok, I am a stay at home mum to 4 children aged between 12 and 6 mths. My eldest has ADHD and is a handful all the time. Some times I feel he is more hard work than the new(ish) baby is!
Anyway, I can't seem to keep on top of housework, constant clothes washing etc...
My husband works full time and so he thinks that he doesn;t need to help with ANYTHING at home. He comes in and expects his dinner ready etc... and tonight he came in the front door straight into the front room and sat down and put the cricket on!
Anyway, is my husband right? Should I be able to cope with 4 children and ALL of the housework, cooking, cleaning, school runs, food shopping etc.... or can I justify getting a little bit of help?
It might make him start helping out more because I don't think he would want to pay for extra help???
ANy advice helpful, just so I know.
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to get a cleaner in to help out or should I be able to cope?
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XboxWidow30 · 10/05/2010 21:48
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