I don't think I'm being unreasonable but just wanted to talk it through really. Am I being over protective perhaps?
He seems a nice enough kid, if a little overpowering, but has always been pleasant enough with me. They're friends at school. He's been round to ours a couple of times and I've always wanted DS to have friends who live nearby, so I should be jumping at this chance. The boy is desperate for my DS to go and play round there too, but I just don't want DS to go.
I don't entirely trust the parents and I don't like how that makes me feel about myself. They seem to find the boy a complete handful, doesn't sit still, gets bored very easily. He's clearly done some very dangerous things which my DS just would never contemplate. Like cutting the vacuum cable with a pair of scissors. Whilst his mum was vacuuming. Just to see what would happen. And breaking a wall with a sledge hammer because he wanted to use the bricks for something.
I've only met her a couple of times and this does make me Mrs Judgey Pants par excellence, but when they were going today, she really couldn't get him to budge, and I ended up telling him myself to put the game down as it was time to go.
In my eyes, they've been quite lax about their son coming round to ours - didn't make a point of meeting us or checking who was collecting him from the door. the boy phoned us last week to ask if we could give him a lift to DS's birthday party, and when we collected him, he just left the house without his parents coming to see where he was off to. He's 7 by the way.
DS is quite sensible and "good" - not a great adventurer. this boy seems quite the opposite, and maybe DS would handle him and they'd be good for each other... but would I want to leave DS at their house for a couple of hours???? Really not sure I would.
I know they've had a really bad time lately. Health issues, money issues, have lived abroad which didn't work out. So I'm sure that hasn't helped them.
They've got a big dog which I'm sure DS would be scared of. i don't want to play on this cos DS needs to realise not all dogs are evil, but is that my excuse to put DS off?
OK. Tell me. Am I being overly precious?
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To not want my son to go and play at this boy's house
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PeaGreene · 17/05/2008 21:34
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