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AIBU?
to want to stamp my feet and not contribute to a wedding present?
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JustKeepSwimming · 23/06/2011 20:37
DS1 started school last Sept.
November time one of the other mums had a baby - a collection was got together by mums A & B (A arranged the gift apparently, B collected/chased the money) - mum got a lovely basket of stuff for baby.
April I have a baby (and she's lovely :)) - one of the mums gives me a lovely dress+cardigan outfit.
The others? nothing.
No collection, no lovely basket, and not a word said :(
Now I am a grown-up and have spent the last 9 weeks not dwelling/brooding on this and have been doing well I think - though I have felt very cool towards mums A & B it must be said.
Anyway, roll on to yesterday - another mum mentions collection for teacher/TAs for the end of the year, oh yes I'm keen, saves me having to think of something (though I will prob give them a bottle each having been a teacher myself, you can never get too many presents!), how much I ask?
£15 but we're also doing a collection for A's wedding (next month, have heard lots about it), so say £20.
Now I couldn't care less about the fiver really, and I duly handed over my money today (through gritted teeth) but the idea of contributing to her wedding present really does gall. I have been grumpy/down about it since yesterday.
It doesn't help that she's PTA-queen and everyone seems to love her, including the only before-this-school- mum-friend who is on the PTA too and friends with her (going to the wedding), so i can't have a decent bitch to get this off my chest in RL.
I know I need to breathe deeply & get over it, & i don't even want a pile of stuff for DD, we have everything we need (she is DC3), it's just the principle of it all.
AIBU to want to react like my 3 year old would, stamp & scream & shout & cry?
(I won't of course, but I'd love to let them know how I feel!)
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