My DP had just got a new Sharpei/Staffy when I first met him. The dog is now just over 1 year and i am really concerned about him.
He has terrible separation anxiety which is very upsetting for us both. This behaviour can at times be very destructive, but at other times means that he just cries and shakes when he knows we are going out. It has affected how often we socialise as a couple because we feel it's not worth putting him through the stress. It also means that he sleeps in our room now instead of the kitchen, as his crying and scratching at the door was unbearable and would go on for hours.
Secondly, he is not good on the lead- he really pulls, and i am too frightened to let him off the lead when there are others around as he tends to jump and say hello to them.
We both work full time, and i am of te opinion that we are not a good enough home for him. DP has not really trained him, and is only now promising to take him to a proper class, at my insistence.
While i love him, and think he is very cute, i can't help but think that we have made him into a very difficult and troubled dog. We are hoping to TTC soon and these stories of dog attacks terrify me.
I guess i wish that i had met DP before he got the dog. It would be heartbreaking to get rid of him but I don't think an empty house is suitable for a dog.
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stardusty5 · 18/02/2014 20:34
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