and it's always silly little things to try to 'get away with it' - her words. Last night she was trying to explain why she had misled me about her activities at the weekend and then, as soon as she realised that I wasn't going to allow her to go to something I'd previously agreed to (because the situation has changed from what I was told when I agreed), she tried to make out that she didn't know the full facts when she'd asked me, which was patently untrue.
I have tried to impress upon her the importance of trust and the fact that as she grows up we need to know that she is truthful so we know where she is, who with etc in case anything happens. At present I don't trust her at all and it breaks my heart.
I'm furious with myself because last night I lost my temper with her over it and shouted at her. We only had the same convo 3 weeks ago over something else and she was grounded for a week but I'm aware that grounding is not such an effective punishment in the winter as it gets dark so quickly that they don't tend to go out as much.
How can I regain the trust between us because at present I feel as though I am losing her and I'm not coping with it terribly well.
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My 14yr old dd is lying to me about things, how do we resolve it - CUSTY!!!!!!??????
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Wisteria · 10/10/2007 10:57
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