I'm feeling sick. I looked at the texts on DD's phone this morning and saw that she's been sexting a boy in her year. They'd had an intense non-relationship (i.e. groping, sexting etc) last term but it had stopped when she got a nice boyfriend. However, the nice boyfriend is now history and she's back to really escalated sexual talk with this other boy. She has also sent him pictures.
What do I do? If I clamp down on her phone use/freedom, won't it make the illicit relationship seem even more exciting? Should I tell the boy's parents? (they are quite religious) How do I tell her that I know what's going on and that her behaviour is inappropriate? I tried to talk to her about this when it happened before and she swore up and down that nothing was happening and she knew all the risks and wasn't interested in doing anything stupid.
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Help! 14yo DD explicit texts and pix - should I tell the boy's parents?
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bolshieoldcow · 26/08/2016 09:22
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