Name changed for this. My 21 yr old son has told me this afternoon that his gf is 6 weeks pregnant. Apparently they went to the doctors last week, got an appointment to discuss a termination which was going to happen on Thursday this week. However, she says shehas now changed her mind and is refusing to talk to him about it, beyond saying that she'll see him in court in 9 months time. Some silly misunderstanding, although they do have a very on/off relationship anyway. She has always been on the pill throughout their relationship so he (obviously wrongly) thought it was safe. They have been together since they were 17. She is also 21.
He feels as if his life is over although I've told him it's not of course.
She is also 21. I have asked her to meet me - I wouldn't try to influence her one way or the other of course but she's refusing to talk to me as well. I just want to be sure she is ok. She says she's told her parents.
Any words of advice please? I'm devastated but trying hard not to show it.
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Oldeststorey · 02/12/2013 16:24
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