I had a new partner over the summer whom I've seen on and off and I’ve not seen anything like it before.
In a nut shell, he cant have an orgasm through regular sex. He just does not climax without a herculean effort which is often far too painful and goes on too long for me.
He wasnt too bad the first time we were together over a weekend. But lately he cant stay hard long enough to put a condom on so that takes ages as you have to keep starting again and then he goes at is as hard and fast and deep as he can and I had to tell him to stop as it was hurting.
So then he says he has to use his hand. He says he masturbates every day and he absolutely had to climax this time or he would be frustrated all day if he didnt. He asked after did you come? Yeah of course I did with 30 seconds of it like that.
He said he should probably stop masturbating so much and get some sensitivity back. But I thought this was a myth?
The first few times it was ok. Enjoyable and he was concerned for my pleasure. This time I felt I was just there to facilitate an orgasm for him. It is so hard for him to climax that he seems to get wound up about it and I guess that puts him off more. I got no enjoyment at all from it last time and he barely asked.
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Never seen anything like this.
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UserWhatever · 10/12/2016 13:22
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