i was going to namechange for this but the backstory would probably out me anyway as quite a few of you know it.
ok. OH left on sunday for his work. (we live in N.I he works in england) he doesnt know yet how long he will be away for, might be a few days might be a few weeks. so anyway, tidying the bedroom today and opened his bedside drawer and there are some condoms missing. we havent had sex in about 3 weeks due to health reasons and i know how many were there the day before he left because i was putting things in there for him.
what the hell do i do about this. i havent told him i know this yet. he will phone tonight and i have no idea what to say. i cant have this argument over the phone. i need him here to talk about this.
i know there can only be one reason why he would take condoms with him.
i dont want to end what we have but i will not be walked over if he is cheating on me.
i really dont know how to deal with this.
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i dont want it to be the end of us but i think it has to be.
Booyhoo · 12/01/2010 18:02
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