I have just been "dumped" i guess from a year long relationship that commenced very quickly after his ex left him and their baby.
His ex had protested his access rights to his son for reasons that were brought clear to me as the relationship developed.
Although he has not physically assaulted me - apart from throwing a bag, smashing my new i phone etc etc. He has blamed his mistrust issues on minor inconsistencies that he cant get out of his head, eg when i said I had eaten nothing and had a biscuit - it wasnt a lie it was a mistake!
I am a professional woman with a very good career in Education ahead of me and when he just decided the paranoia and gossip he had heard he concluded this was down to me.
He then called my ex husband, my friends, my boss, my father to state that i needed psychiatric help. he thinks hes the next messiah and probably a psychiatrist too.
I am a little concerned as he has manipulated the situation with his ex so badly and destroyed her good name - also a very professional woman by indicating everything was lies. I see clearly that its not. I believe this has been an extreme form of intimidation - but no black eyes makes this hard to clarify!
His ex who will remain a good friend of mine introduced me to this site. I have since withdrawn my character reference that he manipulated and charmed me into and I am slightly concerned as to his next move. ALthough i am educated to masters degree level he is far more academically intelligent than I am.
Any thoughts..............
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BeamsofLight · 01/01/2010 12:09
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