My brother is having all sorts of problems with his 2nd wife in that she is a serial attention seeking flirt. In the past 2 years there have been 3 cases (two within the last 3 months) of texting/ email flirting that has got out of hand.
Each time my brother has given her the benefit of the doubt with the promise from her that it wouldn't happen again. You may think he's an idiot after the first occasion but he left his first wife & his 2 year old son for his now wife and doesn't want to be in that situation again because it broke his heart to leave his son.
His 1st wife was a cold fish (basically made him choose between her and his family) and after a life threatening illnes my brother decided to leave and find happiness elsewhere. He has always had a loving & close relationship with his first son and spends masses of time with him and does more with him than his mother ! He's a brilliant dad.
This latest episode has sent him reeling and he said if it wasn't for their little boy he'd have left months ago.
Rightly or wrongly I have offered to talk to her this evening as she is now acting as if nothing has happened. We've only just booked a holiday with them next year and supposed to be staying over Christmas with them. I am very close to my brother and hate to see him in this situation.
My dilemma is .. How can I approach her without falling out/ telling her she's a stupid bitch and 'what the hell does she think she's doing?' .. She has a fantastic life, great husband, beautiful & healthy child, in fact everything she could possibly want.
It's like she needs a fix of male attention, it gives her a buzz.
Help !!!!
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Serial Attention Seeking flirt SIL - What do I say ?
Tillyboo · 28/11/2008 18:45
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