I've name changed as this is ever so slightly embarrassing. When DH and I have sex, I can only describe it as him banging the living daylights out of me (sorry no polite way of putting it). He seems to want to thrust as deep, as hard and as quickly as possible.
Don't get me wrong sometimes this is great but other times it really hurts and when I say 'ouch' he will slow down for a minute and then just go at it again and I find myself grinning and bearing it.
I've tried broaching the subject with him many times and he just takes offence and gets in a strop. I've told him I'd love for him to make slow sensual love to me but this just goes over his head and he seems incapable of doing anything else other than going at it like a bat out of hell.
The last two times we've done the deed he's really hurt me and it's starting to put me off. In a nutshell, I want to be made love to not f**ked. Any suggestions? Does anyone else have this problem?
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Does DH ever hurt you when you have sex?
ouchthathurts · 15/04/2008 10:04
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