If any one is interested, these are the blogs I find really really helpful
Belle's blog
Lucy's blog
Lily's blog
vxa2's blog
Mummy was a secret drinker blog
Jackie Elliot's The Wine Bitch blog
Other sites I love
Club Soda
Sober Sassy Life
Tired of thinking about drinking
Veronica Valli
I can recommend Headspace for calming the brain chatter and also Andrew Johnson stop drinking for, well , not drinking. You can find these as apps for Android or Apple products.
I've done lots of big chunks of sobriety before, lapsed and got straight back on it again with help of this thread, Belle, Lucy, Sober Sassy Life and lots of other sober blogs.
Every day I do Headspace meditation - on Day 218 now :)
In early days each time I listened to Andrew Johnson stop drinking and still listen to it, and others sometimes. There are lots of different ones, Stop drinking is amazing! Some are free, some a small charge.
I do daily sober homework - in first 30 days I read blogs, listened to the Belle podcast for the day, re read the Club Soda MOB daily email for the day also the Sober Sassy Playbook daily emails. I signed up these earlier in the year and since my lapse I have been re doing them. Really helps me remember to self care and reflect on how I feel and my progress.
Now I am on Day 65 ( this time round) and when I wake up ( hangover free!) I start my day with Headspace meditation, read my affirmations for the day (Don't drink, keep the sober momentum going, have sober treats, love myself, I am not broken, remember to leave other people to sort out their own shit unless asked to get involved and even then think several times if I want to) and write in my journal - this takes me 15 mins before I get up - so while my tea is cooling enough to drink.
I am doing Belles 180 day challenge so I have a daily sober podcast to listen to, which I tend to leave until the evening so if I feel a wobble I can use it :) also there are free one minute messages and a motivational email a day from Belle which are wonderful - . If you pay, you get extra support from Belle but there is a lot free - I actually went to a meet up with her and other sober friends in London last week :)
and reminding myself if I lapse I have to do Day 1 etc all over again next time (shudders) AND what ever it is that is making me want to drink would be so much worse if I were drunk or hungover, as well.
Hope all this helps :)