Me and my OH discussed having a threesome so we decided to have a joint account on this website.
After several failed attempts at getting someone to meet us, and me losing interest in the idea and deciding I just want this to be me and him...he's kicking off
He says this was all my idea and now I've changed my mind. I only think about what I want and not what he wants. He says I'm controlling the whole situation.
I don't understand why he even thinks it's okay to kick off at something that was initially my idea! How can he even have the balls to do that?!
I'm not saying I'm completely off the idea but at this moment in time I have a lot going on, I don't want to do it right now, but he just kicks off whenever I say not now.
I don't know what to do. I've told him, at this present time I'm enjoying doing things with him, not putting energy into finding or speaking to women off a site for them to let us down again.
He just doesn't understand. No matter how I say it.
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I wanted a threesome. Now I don't. Now he's kicking off
amyc88 · 04/07/2016 23:31
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