Today I have to travel home for a family funeral (three hour train journey) Before that I have a days worth of work and personal stuff to sort out (including a train trip to next county and back)
Just said goodbye to my boyfriend; who is cat sitting for me while I am away. Still in his dressing gown at 1pm. He had gotten up to make me a cup of tea, but then went back to bed and got under the duvet. I went to say goodbye to him, and he just shifted to end of bed to kiss me. I asked him if he was going to get up to say goodbye, and he seemed surprised, but then did so.
I'm afraid to say I lost it at that point, and said it would have been nice if he'd offered to carry my suitcase down the stairs, or even been dressed so he could walk round to station with me. I won't see him again until Sunday!
His response is that he had made me a cup of tea, and that if he'd offered to help I would have turned it down! He honestly makes me feel like I'm being an unreasonable nag for expecting him to get out of bed! Am I? I honestly don't know anymore. I just feel so unsupported by him. I have a whole days running around now, and feeling really tearful.
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Is he lazy or AIBU?
whostheJohnsonnow · 30/09/2015 14:10
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