and mostly sleeps with you only if you initiate it (though the sex us then good or at least I think it is!)?
This is what it is like with my h. Asked him to give me a squeeze yesterday as we were lying in bed chatting (I had my arms around him but he generally he just lies there or gives my hand a squeeze which feels like I am making all the effort) and he started complaining (I guess it feels like a straitjacket if someone asks for attention in that way). He said him just being there was a kind of cuddle (yeah right). I pointed out that he had no problem cuddling the dc (which he really doesn't, he is very affectionate with them) and he said that they are special. When I looked at him like (aren't I special to him too??), he said he meant that they are little.
Anyway, apart from making me feel he can't be bothered and doesn't really care, it also makes me feel unattractive.
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