Hi, I have lurked here for a while but never posted and I would love to hear the opinions of some of the wise MNers.
Background: I am a single mum of 2 Dcs aged 5 and 2. I'm 35. My friend who I have known since school is also a single mum, she's 36 and has one ds aged 19.
Last night my dcs were at their dad's so I went over to my friend's for a few drinks. Her ds was out with his friends at one of the pubs down the road from her house. About 9pm we decided to get a takeaway, there is a Chinese about a 10 minute walk away from my friend's so she offered to walk down and get one.
While she was out, her ds came back from the pub, he was a bit drunk but not completely plastered. We got chatting, he is doing a college course and I asked how he was getting on etc. He then started asking me about my love life (!) which I found a bit strange, he asked if I had a boyfriend and I said no. He laughed and then said he was surprised as all his friends would love to date a "fit milf". I just laughed a bit, felt quite uncomfortable though. He was sat on the sofa opposite and then moved over to my sofa and tried to kiss me! I pushed him off and said I was not interested but he was quite persistent, luckily my friend then came back and he went upstairs to his room. The whole thing made me feel very uncomfortable and I left quite soon after. He has never done anything of this sort before and never given any inclination that he fancied me. I am not at all interested in him and don't know if I want to be alone with him now.
What should I do? Should I tell my friend? Or just brush it off as a drunk mistake?
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friend's ds made a pass at me.
Peechykeen · 10/05/2014 10:29
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