What level of contact are you happy for your partners to have with female friends/colleagues? I've been snooping in DHs Blackberry (I know nothing good ever comes of this) and now don't know if I'm being paranoid or have reason to worry as there seems to be a lot with one particular woman.
Over the last couple of weeks there are emails to her pretty much every working day - there's nothing particularly incriminating but very few are work related - more a mixture of 'how's your day, what you up to' type and what I consider flirtyish banter (sarcasm, playful insults to each other etc). His call history for the last week has a few 30 minute plus phone calls with her (during the day when he's at work/travelling) and there's reference in one of their emails to a pub lunch (I hadn't heard about this) and she also jokingly accused him of trying to get her drunk on a work night out last weekend (I did know about this)
We’ve been married for 10 years, have 2 DCs and as far as I'm aware things are ok between us. Does it sound like he's just emailing her as a friend when he's bored or do you think there is more to it?
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Husband and female colleague - is this weird or ok?
curtainswitcher · 17/11/2013 21:21
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