Regular here, who has nc as I feel a bit of an idiot and possibly a bit of a cow!
I have a new relationship that's been going well for approx 6 weeks. I've been single for 3 years; he hasn't had a gf for 14 years! I can't see any obvious reason why not, except perhaps he has been overweight in the past and is now losing weight and feeling more confident. He is very intelligent and ridiculously thoughtful.
So, what's the problem? I feel he's a bit clingy, although he is very respectful of my need for space. I have a lot more going on in my life than he does. I have two teenage dc. He is divorced, with no dc and very few friends locally - although he does have several very close friends in other cities. He is also very well loved by said friends.
He has parents who live abroad and already, he has told them all about me and how happy he is. They have asked to e mail me and give their congratulations. His mum has also arranged for wine and chocolates to be sent. They are delighted for him and it makes me feel odd somehow. I have given very brief details to my own mother so far but that's normal for my family.
The reason it all feels so odd is because his family and friends are so overjoyed and it's such early days. I do like him, he does have lots to recommend him but still I feel a bit freaked out. I did try to explain (he's a good listener) but still the celebrations continue and I am beginning to feel myself backing off. Imagine I decided not to continue with this relationship? Am I right in thinking the way I do?
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So, is new man odd?
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