Bit of background... been together almost 7years, married for three, 2 DC, 5 & 1.5.
An opportunity to rehome a cat has come up and I'd love to take her in. DH doesn't like cats (just a general dislike not phobic) so we are at a stalemate.
He just got really moody and said that if I get the cat he will actually leave. It's a dealbreaker for him.
I now feel like I want to get the cat and see if he's bluffing or not. This has thrown up so many questions in my head... Does he think that little of us that he'd leave over a cat? it's not about the cat now.
Am I being stupid? I was quite willing to respect his opinion before he threw that into the mix. I just don't get it.
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DH and I arguing over a bloody cat.
ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 25/05/2013 21:41
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