DP went out yesterday, as he does most weekends. He was drinking heavily most of the day. He came home at about 2am. He made a lot of noise, crashing about and falling over. This woke up our DS, and I went into his bed to sleep with him for reassurance.
At about 3.30am DP started making more noise, staggering about, going to the loo, being sick, turning lights on and off etc.
When DS and I got up at 7am he had gone to bed. There was vomit all over the armchair and the floor in the front room, more in the bathroom and a massive pile of it on our bedroom floor.
I cleaned up in the front room and the bathroom, the smell in the bedroom was so awful I couldn't bear it. DP was fast asleep.
I couldn't wake him before I had to go to work this afternoon and TBH I wasn't happy leaving a four year old with someone in that kind of state. I managed to get MIL to have DS so he could sleep it off.
I got home tonight and it's as if nothing had happened. A cursory attempt has been made to clean up the sick in the bedroom but there is a horrible stain. No apology, no explanation, no thanks for finding a babysitter. And there's a half eaten Chinese takeaway just left all over the kitchen.
I could cry, I really could. This isn't a one off either, he drinks himself into oblivion most weekends. I just want him to leave, but I don't know how to tell him. What a mess.
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