After my Husband and I got married, (in which time I had left my home, family, job and friends), and moved in with him, (he lived three hours drive away), my hubby decided to tell me that he is paying his mothers mortgage, (his Dad died when he was 14, and his mother is now 90), which is £600 a month, and he has been paying this for approx 10 years). His brother owes him £100,000, most of which he will probably never see as he has no proof that he lent this money to his brother.
Because of him paying his mothers mortgage, we can never own a home of our own, so we end up in awful rented accomodation. He has no savings because he gave them all to his Brother.
Ok, generosity was one of the reasons that attracted me to my hubby, but this is ridiculous!
We now have a beautiful two year old Daughter, but we have only been out twice since she was born. He only bought me a present when it was our first christmas, all other occasions since, I have had to buy my own and ask him for the money.
He even forgot my Birthday last year!
WOULD YOU PUT UP WITH THIS?!!
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Would you divorce your Husband if he was like mine?
Crumble16 · 25/05/2012 17:00
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