I will try and make sense of what I want to say. We live in UK but I'm not from here, therefore none of my relatives are around. Dh is local and has mil, pil (long time divorced) and a sil with bil and 2 dn. He also has a db we don't see as they don't get on. Added to this are aunts/ uncles / cousins.
I'm getting really fed up that most of our weekend time is being taken up seeing his family. Over Easter, we saw someone for at least a few hours every day of the four days off. Dh works manic hours and it feels like we never have any time just us.
Mil is the biggest issue. We have a history but are polite and pleasant to each other. I will need really trust her due to past issues. I also have nothing to say to her. She has no opinions, hobbies, interests etc any conversation I start is one sided. She isn't being rude, she is just dull. Sorry if that's harsh. I find being on her company mind numbing.
She visits most wednesdays and every saturday afternoon. Dh is at work Wednesdays so it's just me and the dc. On a Saturday dh is here and will either work because she is here to help with the dc or will sit with her drinking tea and eating biscuits. She will expect lunch and dinner.
This is long, and probably boring. Sorry. I tried to tell dh that I'm struggling with us not having time to ourselves and he says she is great with the kids (true) and she helps out so we can have the odd night away (also true).
Am I being awful? I just want to scream with the frustration of it all
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Mil issues, family time etc going mad here
Fisharefriendsnotfood · 21/04/2012 16:23
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