DH and I are on the verge of splitting up, certainly temporarily if not for good. He says he cannot give me what I want from a relationship, which I have told him is:
-to feel loved and equal
-to know that I am special to my husband, not just childcare/cook/cleaner, but a wife/friend/partner to him
-support to enable me to succeed as a person in my own right (both emotional and physical help)
- to feel that spending time with me isn't a chore to be fitted in, but actually something important and, dare I say it, pleasant!
that's it really - am I asking too much? I should add that he is a bit ASD and finds all talk of emotions hard work, so I know I'm banging my head against a wall really.
I just need to know if my expectations for a marriage in general are unreasonable, regardless of his personal limitations? If we split up am I likely to find someone else to whom this description of marriage isn't a totally alien concept?