Background to the story - a week before Christmas there was an office drink arranged for the local pub. It was DH's female colleague's last day before she was going on a long-planned 4 week holiday with her son. My DH was working from home that day and ended up getting caught up in some work problems and unable to make the drinks.
A week later I found the following text on my DH's phone:
Female colleague: I'm not going to make the drinks, still working, please apologise to everyone for me.
DH: Message not saved but presumably he said he wouldn't make it too.
Female colleague: Oh shame, I'll text one of the others.
DH: Message not saved.
Female colleague: LOL! I'm glad we did that! Something for you to remember me by! See you soon.... oxoxo
So, what the flip was my DH's second text all about?
I have asked him, he says that the day before he said goodbye to her in the office and gave her a goodbye hug and wished her well for the holiday - all just in case he didn't make the drinks. Sounds like something my DH would do because he's always bailing out on social things because of work. So he says the text said something along the lines of 'just as well we hugged goodbye in the office'.
Not sure what to think. I have no other reason to be suspicious of my DH, but I'm not totally convinced by his explanation. I just don't think people send texts like that last one over a hug in the office.
Not sure what to think.
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Text Message on my DH's phone from female colleague
Demi · 28/12/2010 09:37
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