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and sex can be painful at times. what are the best positions to accommodate as much of him as possible,without hurting myself and still helping us both to climax?

him laying down, you on top, facing his feet. tuck your legs under his for anchorage.

omg, did i really just post that without name changing! my excuse is i am in a migraine tablet induced haze

lol, i can just about manage on top the normal way round, but it can be tricky. missionary is fine, from behind is a big no-no. just need more ideas, thanks, will try that one out

whatever doesn't go too deep - DH is fairly big and sometimes doing positions like legs over shoulders, from behind, me on top etc are painful too because it's too deep.

Good old missionary, spooning, positions where your legs are between his and straight as they can be prevents it getting too deep, or hitting a spot that if he's a bit bigger than you're used to....

thanks, he isnt jusr fairly big, we are talking huge! spooning we have tried, the other problem we have is, he is over a foot taller than me.

gah I didn't namechange either....ah well....god, really lucykate?? from behind I find is deeper (sometimes good, sometimes bad)

well don't go making me jealous! Girth/length or both are too big?...what is it Samantha does on SATC? smokes a joint and drinks wine I think (though error 1, putting her leg over his shoulder, eeeek!)

He could wear a doughnut style cock ring - that will stop him battering your cervix.

both are huge. i dont smoke joints, and not really a drinker either. will just have to be careful i reckon

mal- would have to find one big enough

We need measurements...it is Friday night after all

we are talking maybe 8 to 9 inches length, and maybe 4-5 girth

There is a specially designed ring for very well endowed men, I know I've seen it somewhere, unfortunately I can't remember where, or what it's called. I'm sure googling will bring it up.

Congratulations is all I can say

I like a fat cock myself...if it doesn't touch the sides, it 'aint worth it

oh, it definitely touches the sides , and after my having had 5 kids, that is a measure of how big he is i reckon

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I would say definitely missionary or side. It might help if you encircle him with your hand/palm, thumb to fingers, before him entering. Gives him a bit more length to play with.

gwtmh, that way round, you are taking your own weight on your knees, so can control the, err, <gone all shy now!> thrust depth

To add to the mix do it from behind as in spooning with him stimulating your clit.

Works.

Otherwise on top with you leaning on his chest and that way you can control how far he can go into you.

Enjoy.

i would say missionary or side on/spooning, or on top leaning forward

all 3 positions will give you more control as to how far he can enter you comfortably

must warn you that you will never be able to downgrade!

Doddgy style but flat down tends to let it hit a little less deep.

Eh..lots of lube and lots of 'warming up'? And well...funny how everyone always thinks we women only want HUGE cocks whereas actually too big can be worse than too small.

Had one of those once...yea eyes watering just remembering it, wasnt much fun!

hehe

Uh that was supposed to read doggy style



Hate to think what 'doddy style' is all I can think of is Ken....

Lol@ dodgy style, Elmtree

Crouch. You can rest one shin on the ground, but you'll need the other leg bent at the knee for leverage. You can wiggle your hips around a lot that way (experiment with circles & figures of eight) - should be rather nice for you both You can do this at any angle, if you fancy a change of view.

Oh, and another one that needs good thigh muscles (you can tone them up one at a time with your kneeling crouch!!) - have him kneeling between your legs; raise yourself to 'receive' him. This also gives you total control over your movements & angle - as long as you don't let him grab & pull.

Can you tell I'm big on control?