Morning all
Since we first discussed the possibility of having a child together, DH has talked of wanting a son. I'm 29 weeks pg and found out for definite last week that LO is a girl. I know DH is really disappointed and said to me on Monday evening that he wants a son more than anything (and is happy to keep trying until we have one!). In my hormonal state, I'm pretty upset by this (even though I know it's fact) as I'm worried that that he won't love DD and they won't bond at all. Other than his mother, DH comes from an all male family.
BTW - I'm delighted we're having a DD. MIL is also pleased as she has one grandson already and this will be first grandaughter on both sides.
Does anyone have any experience of this where DP/DH have expressed disappointment (either explicit or implicit) before the birth?
Thanks in advance
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DH's 'gender disappointment' - will he get over it - advice please
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Sallypuss · 06/08/2008 10:08
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