yes runny I am with you there, when I go quiet (not very often) is when he needs to worry & hurriedly do something!!!!!!!!!
Glad he has caught up with you and now you can catch up on rest

Katy - forget night times for the moment, not sure on the bum thing though

and I am not the the mum to be asking about potty training (its my worst nightmare)
dippy - hows things in the dippy household?
sol - hope sleep is getting better
I really don't like December birthdays
SPB - pmsl at T putting his hand up his bum

Thank you ladies for all your advice (mwah to all of you)
Knew that I needed to talk to dh, but needed to get it straight so it wouldn't turn into a argument, iyswim. Anyway, I've been civil and polite, just getting on with things. So last night, we came in from football practice and he asked me what I wanted to do on the weekend. I said what I want to do, and what'll actually happen are 2 things. Then he told me he wasn't going fishing, he will see to the boys in the night, and the morning, so I can catch up on some much needed rest

He also said that he was trying to build bridges with me

, but

So it turns out I don't actually need to shout be heard. Although I do remember saying to dh once that the day I stop getting shouty/angry/upset is the day he should start worrying, because it will mean I don't care. Wonder if he remembers that too

hi SOl

can i ask more potty training questions
I assume it's OK to concentrate on days & assume he'll be in a nappy overnight for a little while longer??
T seems to tell me he needs the potty after he's weed - his pull ups are wet - any magic formula for this?#
(don't read if eating) any way to stop him putting his hand up his bum <bleurgh>
Evening

Bramshott, so sorry to hear about your dh's colleagues baby

Dooby, hope you are ok lovely. xx
SB, don't know how you do it! Hope you are ok.
Runny, a huge hug to you. I too think you need to talk to dh and let him know what's what. It is not fair on you at all. xx
Elkie, hope you are doing ok back at work.
SPB, how is T's tummy now?
Ange, lovely to see you!!!!
Dippy, sounds like you have had a good day

Apologies to those I have missed.
All ok here. Dh has been away since Tuesday in Chile, so it has been the 3 girls. I am kackered. K is still waking at night, and she now has a bloody cough which whilst doesn't bother her, keeps me awake. I feel dizzy with tiredeness. Dh due back Sunday lunch time.
We are not potty training as K is not ready at all. They sit her on the potty at nursery, and she sits on it before bath and squeezes out a fart! But, nothing else produced. Seems odd to me, as B was dry during the day when she was 25 months and it took just a week.
Not bad, just been bowling with DH and the smalls. P didn't like the noise; but the rest of us enjoyed it. DD1 and DD2 beat me

We need a new thread
