My DS is 10m now, and up until yesterday I'd only left him with his Dad (not due to
being short of offers though), and the longest for a couple of hours. Then yesterday his parents were up for a long weekend and they offered to look after him while we went to the movies. DH was keen, his parents are fine, responsible etc.
I was reluctant but went anyway, and was in tears before we'd even got to the end of the driveway. I sobbed pretty uncontrollably all the way there, and sniffled my way through the movie, then came home on a mission! DH offered 3 times to go back home but I'm going back to work in about a month - DS staying home with Dad, so ok-ish about that, so I feel like I've got to get a little tougher.
But getting pressure from comments like 'he has to learn to be independant' etc.
I felt like I'd abandoned him, and really let him down, what if he needed me? He was fine by the way - I just wasn't.
Anyone else out there the same or am I a weirdo?
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Can't bear to leave my son, am I weird? Feeling Pressure :(
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jaynz · 27/04/2008 23:56
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