An emotive subject,I know. I also know that in comparison with others I have it easy this time of year;
The facts:
ExHusband works shifts, daughter's just turned 8years old, court order states that over Christmas ex has daughter from 6pm Christmas Day until 4pm Boxing day and then other dates and times by agreement.
Ex wants from the Friday she breaks up until 10am Christmas Eve.
5pm Christmas Day until 5pm Boxing Day
Sat 29th 10am until Sun 30th 6pm
Tues 1st Jan 4pm until Fri 4th Jan 6pm
On the face of it his requests seem reasonable, however if I set it out like this : D = Dad and M = Mum the 'routine' is:
D D M M D M M D D M M D D D M M M
Which I think is all over the place. I suggested that he forgoes the weekend in between Christmas and New Year and instead has her for the weekend after New Year therefore giving daughter longer at both houses. He does not agree.
Also I am irritated by him changing the times stated on the Court Order and also by his suggestion that he picks up daughter at 4pm on New Years Day - this smacks of using me as a baby sitter - he is either working New Years Eve or going out therefore needs to sleep during the day.
I suspect that noone will reply to this as it is pathetic and difficult to understand however I just wondered if anyone has any suggestions? Or do you think I should just agree.I worry that daughter will not want to go to Dad's and will be stressed with thinking up an excuse or inventing an illness
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wirral · 08/10/2007 14:30
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